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Location: Hiroshima
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Hi, its time to write u a testimonial la. well i think chingfu is a great guy. Havent seen the actual person buts seems very nice. Is a great net friend and very hardworking person!! If i ever do get a chance would like to meet him in real person! ^_^

this dude is cool ~! super clever guy. score all the academy in high rate star! wow ~! bla bla bla... this guy full with good thing. one of my good pal in zorpia. i guess i have to write something for him before i lost the chance to do so. who know? hehe ~! anyway, very please to know this guy on earth.

*快樂的秘訣*

花時間思考--這是智慧的根源
花時間工作--這是成功的代價
花時間助人--這是快樂的泉源
花時間閱讀--這是知識的基礎
花時間去笑--這是去除煩憂的妙藥
花時間健身--這是財富與生命的保障
花時間沉思--這是淨化心靈,身心合一的捷徑
花時間娛樂--這是享受人生,永保青春的祕方
花時間愛人--這是生命最動人的樂章
花時間計畫--這是如何有時間做前九件事的要訣

若沒有相同的感動與興趣,那在一起一定很無趣~~
經歷同樣的感動,婚姻才能經營長久~~



一個微雨的清晨,有一個很要好的朋友突然打電話給我。
電話彼端的他,情緒有點低沉:「我決定向我太太提出離婚的要求。」
在離婚率偏高的現代,聽到這種消息,我的反應並不是很詫異...意外的倒是他告訴我的理由。

「你知道嗎?結婚這十幾年來,我幾乎沒有和我太太有過什麼共同的感動了。
我們不曾一起閱讀過一本書,談過其中任何一個有趣的章節。
我們甚至很少一起看電影,更別提看完電影之後曾經就其中某一個場景、某一個片段,
交換過什麼感動的心得。」

聽到這裡,我能深刻體會他的悲哀。
也許,這也是所有婚姻很典型的問題,從一開始的熱烈不知不覺走到疲乏的地步。
一朝醒來,當初最親密的枕邊人,因為日漸減少共鳴而變得面目可憎。
最珍貴的歲月,因為逐漸缺乏了分享感動而變得乏善可陳。

經營感情和婚姻的玄妙之處,就在於如何讓兩個獨立的個體,擁有各自的空間,
卻能因為共同分享的經驗,將兩人相繫、讓兩人相惜。
在平凡中,體會趣味。
在尋常間,流露真情。
說穿了,這個道理和經營友誼並沒有太大不同。
一對知己、一雙伴侶,在本質上其實是很相近的。
除了深愛對方以外,還有愛上有其他共同的愛好。

我曾經在報上,看過一則消息,報導台灣一對夫婦,他們原本經營一家中小型的企業,
非常成功。
他們因為同時愛上旅行,於是在業務穩定之後,把公司全部交給員工經營,
夫妻倆從此千山萬水、夫唱婦隨。
還有一對國外的夫婦,丈夫愛上帆船,太太受到感動,也產生興趣,
後來兩個就搭上帆船,浪跡天涯。
伴侶間能夠培養共同的興趣,以愛情擴展生命的版圖,
不再把生活的焦點全部集中在對方身上,
一起關注在彼此都覺得有趣的事物上,真是莫大的幸福。

有一對情侶決定要結婚了,他們跋山涉水、不遠千里去拜訪一位先知,
向他請教長相廝守的秘訣。
先知以慈藹的眼光看看他們,卻說了一句表面上聽來無情、實際上卻富饒深意的話。

他說:「你們不要只是愛著對方,還要共同愛上別的東西。」

別的東西?別的東西究竟是什麼,絕對因人而異。
可能是一本書、一項有趣的戶外活動、或是一種令人著迷的嗜好。
而最能持久、最不乏味的東西,其實就是生命的本身。
一起熱愛生活,擁有充沛的能量,分享心靈的喜悅,將是恆久維繫感情於不墜的最大力量!!!!O!!!

Merry Xmas too...where is my gift yaa...hehe..wow got exchange present somemore..msut be great then!i still duno wat i gonna to do in xmas...haihhh

hi,can you add me to be your net-friends........hahaha
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It`s time to say Sayonara
Thursday,Jun 5 2008, 06:15:22 AM(Last updated: Saturday,Jun 7 2008, 03:22:17 AM)


From Innsbruck, Austria to Murnau, Germany.

 
Hi peeps, sorry i gotta use this word to describe you guys! Erm, you guys can continue hiding there, but i am not going to post anything here. No kidding. Only private messaging and reply the comments. Anyway i will leave you guys the address of my new dream house here. Visit me there if you miss me.

Thanks for passing by my old house. Although i could only offer you guys cup of tea and slice of cake when visiting my house, but honestly speaking, i had a great time talking with you all. Okay my dearest friends, i promise i will visit you more often just like before. Remember you are more than welcome to come over my new place.

Please feel free to check out my latest photos and my world travel`s journals with nice pictures,at the same time enjoying those cool songs playing at my new house, ok? Better layout and setting there. Stay connected my friends. For the new peeps, you can go there have a look.

I am officially moved to http://lamchingfu.blogspot.com/

Sayonara. See you there.

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Sunday,Jun 1 2008, 07:37:26 AM(Last updated: Saturday,Jun 14 2008, 04:49:14 AM)

Kobe + Hiroshima, 22 March 2007


My host family (parents and grandparents).

This day, we were heading for Kobe and would then be directly going to Hiroshima as my graduation fell on the following day.


Night view Kobe Habourland.


Meriken Park, Kobe Habourland.

Kobe (神戸) is known as a city having a unique style with the exotic atmospherein Japan which has been affected by the foreign cultures and flourishedas the international port since old days. Unfortunately, a tremendousearthquake measured at 7.3 magnitude (slightly weaker than Sichuan`s7.8) hit the city in 1993, killing 6433 and making 300,000 homeless anddestroying tens of thousands of buildings as well as large parts of its international ports facilities.Nevertheless, under the quick and efficient action taken by thegovernment, Kobe has completely recovered within a decade and turnedinto a vibrant city that considered as one of Japan`s most attractivecities.




Still early for Chinese sweets or desserts.


Ramen seems one of the popular in Nankinmachi.


Wrong. Japanese loves Hong Kong dimsum more.

Nankinmachi (南京町) been developed as the residential area of Chinesemerchants who settles in Kobe after the city had been opened to foreigntrade in the 19th century. It is also known as Kobe`s chinatown, rathersmall but offers a nice atmosphere and some good food. We enjoyedgrabbing the food from various kinds of stalls from curry fishball todimsum to sharkfin soup.


Kobe`s chinatown, Nankimachi.




Map of Nankinmachi.


A popular meeting point at the centre of Kobe Chinatown.

Kobe Habourland is a shopping and entertainment district along the waterfront of Kobe`s port area, a popular spot for locals and tourists.


Kobe Habourland.

Other attractions include the Kobe Port Tower which is a symbol of the city, and the Kobe Maritime Museum with its cool architecture.








Amusement park at Meriken Park, Kobe Habourland.

Mosaic of Meriken park is Kobe`s playground. There are restaurants, bars, a movie theater, a shopping market, an amusement arcade and a little amusement park with a romantic ferris wheel. It is a popular dating spot among young coupples.


It is Tottoro.


The shopping street at Mosaic.

Later we window shopping around the shopping street before having our tea break.


You can get fruits along the pedestrian street everywhere throughout the country.


The main shopping street at Kobe Motomachi.


It`s time for dessert. 500Yen (US$5) each. Expensive but yummilicious.

After a while before it really get dark, we took bullet train to Hiroshima. There were non stop of "ohhh", "ahhh" and "wahhh" when an express bullet train passes by. It was indeed very fast. Four of them were freaking excited as that was their first BULLET train ride. Vrrroooommmmm...


Shinkansen (新幹線), Japan`s high speed train (bullet train).


Ryokan (旅館), Japanese style inn.

A stay at a ryokan is highly recommended to all foreign visitors as it real offers the opportunity to experience a traditional Japanese atmosphere. The second reason why i put them there is i was staying at my university`s one room apartment. Well, so they slept in traditional style, using futon which is spread out on the tatami floor. A yukata is provided to be worn during the stay at any ryokan. You could walk around the ryokan in yukata and also as pajamas.


いらっしゃいませ~ (Welcome~)





It was a long day for me! I called it a day at 11.30pm once i had reached my own apartment.

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FuFu Travel Guide
Friday,May 23 2008, 08:15:19 AM

Nara & Osaka  -21 March 2007-



Nara (奈良) is an ancient and the first permanent capital city in Nara Prefecture, Kansai region of Japan. Nara is home to many important scenic and historical World Heritage sites and its main preserved sights are much more attractively than Kyoto within Nara park and neighbourhoods like Naramachi. Nevertheless, Nara is always omitted from many time pressed tourists` itineraries as overshadowed by its more famous neighbour Kyoto. As a profesional guide, i definitely pen down Nara on my tour list. Nara is located west and south of Osaka and Kyoto respectively, 40mins from both Kyoto and Osaka by train.


Kintetsu Nara Station.

Once arrived the station, you can simply walk to almost all the other major sites. The conventional round course from Kintetsu Nara Station to Nara Park, Todaiji, Kofukuji, Kasuga Taisha and back to Kintetsu Nara Station is about 6km long, usually a quite pleasant walk for tourists.


Nara Park.

Most of Nara`s sights, including temples and shrines are concentrated in Nara Park (奈良公園 Nara koen), a wide and pleasant space of greenery. This park is also home to hundreds of freely roaming deer. According to the legend, the god of the Kasuga Taisha came riding a white deer in the old days, so the deer enjoy protected status as envoys of the god and have been designated a national treasure. However, based on their current behaviour, either the deer have lost the job, or the god has taken an extremely passionate interest in business from tourists, these mercenary deers will approach harassing tourists for biscuit. It is though worth to spend ¥150 (US$1.5) on a packet of senpei (biscuit) for the deer.




Okay, no more biscuits.


Nanmon, Todaiji.


Daibutsuden, Todaiji.

Todaiji (東大寺, Great Eastern Temple) is one of Japan`s most famous and historically significant temples and a landmark of Nara. Constructed in 752 as the head temple of all provincial Buddhist temples of Japan, Daibutsuden (大仏殿), the buidling that housing Japan`s largest Buddha statue ( 大仏, Daibutsu) is said one of the world`s largest wooden buildings. The temple was put on the World Heritage list of UNESCO in 1998.



At the temple, you can burn osenko (incense) in large incense burners. Throw a coin into the offering box, take a bundle of incense, light them and let them burn for a few seconds then extinguish the flame by waving your hand rather than by blowing it out. Put the incense into the incense burner and fan some smoke towards yourself as the smoke is believed to have healing power.


The purification trough fountain.


Daibutsu at Todaiji.


Ring the gong before you pray.



Also another interest in the Daibutsuden is the rear support pillar, which have holes through the bottom. Popular belief has it that if one is successful in squeezing through the healing pillar, he or she is guaranteed a place in heaven. Thanks god, both my younger and elder sisters have successfully gained the tickets to the heaven.



To the right of the entrance to the Daibutsuden is a statue of the Yakushi Nyorai. Though a bit scary-looking on first glance, it`s actually a Buddha of medicine and healing. Touching a part of the Yakushi Nyorai and then the corresponding part of your own body is said to heal any ailments you have there.


The Buddha of medicine and healing, at Todaiji.


This octagonal lantern is an ancient treasure.

Outside the Daibutsuden at the bottom of the steps, don`t miss the bronze Octagonal Lantern, one of the oldest treasures in Todaiji - it dates from the original 8th century temple. The lantern`s support post is inscribed with a Buddhist text on the merits of lighting lanterns.


Daibutsuden, Octaganol Lantern in front of the building and the purification fountain on the right.


One of the garden in Todaiji.




Todaiji World Heritage Monument.



We then moved to another World Heritage site - Kofukuji (興福寺). Kofukuji is used to be the family temple of Fujiwara, the most powerful family clan during the Nara Period (710-794). Kofukuji`s Treasure House exhibits part of the temple`s great art collection.


The main hall and pagoda of Kofukuji.


Kofukuji World Heritage Monument.

Temples store and display sacred Buddhist objects and some of them used to or still function as monasteries. The Pagoda, a structure that has evolved from Indian stupa, usually comes with three or five stories. And this five storied pagoda is one of Japan`s tallest and the symbol of Nara.


Pagoda of Kofukuji.



Kasuga Taisha (春日大社) is a normal shrine but famous for its many lanterns which donated by worshippers. The bronze lanterns within the shrine and hundreds of stone lanterns lining the shrine`s approach are lit on the occasion of the Lantern Festivals in February and August.




The main entrance of Kasuga Taisha.


In front of a mocchi-making shop.

Naramachi is the former merchant district of Nara where several traditional warehouses and residential buidlings have survived. Besides the main street, small boutiques, shops, cafes and restaurants can also be found along the district narrow lanes.


On one of the streets in Naramachi.


Curry Udon.

After lunch in Nara, we headed for a dialysis hospital in Osaka. Yes, my mother has lost her kidney function since 12 years ago and has been going for dialysis three times a week. Cost of the dislysis for foreigner is rediculous high in Japan. But i asked my professor to write me a recommendation letter so i could bring my mother to the local hospital. We then went to Namba, the southern downtown of Osaka while my mother having her four hours dialysis.


Midosuji line, subway in Osaka.


Nankai building.

Osaka, in a nation of obesessive gourmands, also known as an excellent place to eat, exemplified by the Osakan maxim kuidaore (食い倒れ) which means eat yourself into ruin or eat until you drop in Osaka. The best place for exercising kuidaore is probably Dotonburi at Namba. It is also the famous shopping and entertainment district located around Namba station. It offers something for everyone and includes neighbouring attractions as the fashionable Amerikamura, the Shinsaibashi Shopping Arcade. Belows are some of the more famous establishments can be found in Namba.


The mascot Kuidaore Taro.

The mascot is featuring a mechanical clown beating a drum, is one of the contenders for the title of the largest restaurant in the world. Taro is a popular tourist icon of Namba, even now swarmed by crowds of tourists patiently waiting their turn to snap a memento.


Kani Doraku Crab.

Kani Doraku (かに道楽), easily identifiable by the giant mechanical crab waving its pincers about, is one very expensive restaurant specializes in crab.


Aka Oni Tako (赤鬼たこ), is famous for takoyaki, bits of octopus inside fried dumplings with its own made special sauce. It is ranked as one of the best takoyaki (たこ焼き) in Osaka and the same goes for service too! Remember to look for the big red oni (ghost) holding plate of takoyaki.


Glico man.

Originally installed in 1935, the giant athlete is a symbol of Glico candy, featuring a running man on a blue track is one of the infamous mechanized signs in Dotonburi



Despite its name, Shin Kabukiza Theater is not usually staging kabuki performances. Instead, it mainly features concerts by popular Enka singers and other shows.



The National Bunraku theater is considered the nation`s most prestigious. Besides staging kabuki performances, buraku, rakugo and noh also performed.
                

Dotonburi.


Shinsaibashi Shopping Arcade.


Shinsaibashi at dusk.



One of Osaka`s most popular tourist destinations, Dotonburi (道頓堀) runs parallel to the canal. Itis a popular shopping and entertainment district and is also known as a food destination. At night, it is lit by hundreds of neaon light and mechanized signs, including the Glico Man and Kani Doraku crab signs.


A crowd in Dotonburi.


American Village.

Amerikamura, locally known as Amemura is a shopping district that considered Osaka`s counterpart to Harajuku, particularly popular among young people, and is one good place to see the cutting edge of teenage fashion trends and culture in Japan. It is a lively atmosphere that is populated with cafes, clothing stores and thrift shops.


Shinsaibashi-suji (心斎橋筋).


Daimaru Department stores.


Midosuji street, Sinsaibashi.

Shinsaibashi Shopping Arcade and its surrounding area is Osaka`s premiere shopping center. Approximately 600m long, this area is unique as it combines chain retail stores and trendy boutiques with expensive department stores and top designer fashion label.


Donkihote, the cheap retail shop .


The most significant neaon light and mechanized signs at Dotonburi.

   

Once we stepped in the shopping arcade in Shinsaibashi, both of my sisters had gone mad when they saw Hello Kitty House, Disney Store, and other accessories shops.


Hello Kitty`s fans.


The pachinko parlor caught their eyes too.  

Four hours later, four of us went back to the hospital and picked up my mother for dinner at Namba as i need to bring them to my host father`s Italian restaurant. We had Hokkaido`s famous miso ramen at Shinsaibashi Shopping Arcade after roughly showing my mother around Shinsaibashi and Dotonburi.


We take subway back to Namba.






Hokkaido`s Chitokobanya Ramen.


Char siew red miso ramen. Red miso ramen is highly recommended.

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chingfu!
6/20/2008 7:22 AM
thomelin, 28
Malaysia

hello!
long time!!
u leaving alreADY??
hope everythings' ok with u!

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hi
6/19/2008 1:29 AM
香香, 24
China

hi nice to meet you

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Hi ><
6/16/2008 5:40 AM
Benjawan, 29Verified Zorpian
Phuket
Thailand

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6/15/2008 3:01 PM
Pr!ncEss♥M, 18
o.o, New York
United States

hey dude..long time no see lol..how ya doin anywayz!

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6/16/2008 3:21 AM
lam, 27
Hiroshima
Japan

hey baby... long time no speak... miss you lol yeah i had moved to http://lamchingfu.blogspot.com/ =p feel free to visit me there, i am hunting for job now. how about you? how is your school going on? already on your summer break? have a nice day ya

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6/21/2008 5:47 AM
Pr!ncEss♥M, 18
o.o, New York
United States

hey..yeah..i jus be back from my travelin i guess so..hmm a long fly..how about ur job anywayz...hv a gud time

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your jounal ia real
6/15/2008 12:44 AM
ArletteCharl, 34
Castries
Saint Lucia

civilization of your home town,where beauty is skin deep but more rest asured it captivates the essence of humanity in all levels if this your family warm is shown and thats what the world and different continient needs to share pics in great places where shadows lies.

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Re: your jounal ia real
6/15/2008 3:31 AM
lam, 27
Hiroshima
Japan

yeah you can read more here,
http://lamchingfu.blogspot.com/
have a nice day

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Hi ^^
6/7/2008 3:09 AM
Benjawan, 29Verified Zorpian
Phuket
Thailand

Hey you're still online here ... heard you said sayonara. I've checked your new house. Nice, huh?
See you there :) and keep in touch!

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Re: Hi ^^
6/7/2008 1:38 PM
lam, 27
Hiroshima
Japan

ok see u there! do remember drop me a line too ya

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hi love you every day ^_^
6/6/2008 3:21 AM
wongnuamr, 25
Rayong
Thailand

Thank you.u not forget me.i reading for contents you. i see i miss you myfriend.to be nothing forget send picture you to me i will read contents from you.bye bye have a nice day.

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Re: hi love you every day ^_^
6/6/2008 10:33 AM
lam, 27
Hiroshima
Japan

thanks! go to my new house please =)

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hi
6/5/2008 1:36 PM
yawen, 22
Qingdao, Shandong
China

hajimemashite~ hiroshima is beautiful~i've come back from there lately..

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6/6/2008 10:37 AM
lam, 27
Hiroshima
Japan

yosshi!! yeah hiroshima is a nice place to go =) wish u had a nice trip there =p

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6/5/2008 6:18 AM
micah, 19
Pasig City
Philippines

hi.
wanna chat with me?
lets chat on yahoo.what is your e mail add?yahoo pls..
in online

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6/6/2008 10:40 AM
lam, 27
Hiroshima
Japan

yeah send me private message... i dont chat! nor i have yahoo messenger!! =) have a nice day

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^_^
5/29/2008 4:34 AM
wongnuamr, 25
Rayong
Thailand

i want tour to in japan because japan the city pretty ( it a dream)

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Re: ^_^
5/30/2008 4:50 AM
lam, 27
Hiroshima
Japan

hahaha...wish your dream could come true sooner na =)

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