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11/9/2008 7:48 PM QUESTION & ANSWER (30 Comments)
- Najaf Ali
- 20, Pakistan
QUESTION & ANSWER
ABOUT CO-EDUCATION AND CHAT BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE:
Question: What is the concept of Islam about co-education? Whether both males and females can work together in an organization or not?
Answer: If there is fear of falling into a sin, it is not permissible.
Question: Is it permissible to chat with girls on the internet?
Answer: If there is a fear that a girl or a boy may be drawn towards sin, it is not permissible. Normally chatting ends up in a sin for both sides.
Question: I want to ask about talking to ones fiancee on telephone, is it permissible or not?
Answer: If there is no such a fear that you might fall into a sin, there would be no problem.
Question: What is the concept of Islam about co-education? Whether both males and females can work together in an organization or not?
Answer: If there is fear of falling into a sin, it is not permissible.
Question: Is it permissible to chat with girls on the internet?
Answer: If there is a fear that a girl or a boy may be drawn towards sin, it is not permissible. Normally chatting ends up in a sin for both sides.
Question: I want to ask about talking to ones fiancee on telephone, is it permissible or not?
Answer: If there is no such a fear that you might fall into a sin, there would be no problem.
11/12/2008 6:29 PMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: QUESTION & ANSWER
A.
108, Afghanistan
Thank you brother and you in your prayers too. Ameen.
11/13/2008 10:40 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: QUESTION & ANSWER
Najaf Ali
20, Gujranwala, Pakistan
Summameen
My whole prayers with u my sister
My whole prayers with u my sister
5/28/2009 10:20 AMRe: Re: QUESTION & ANSWER
yes, dear saira sis,, ap ki bat sahi hai k islam main sakhti nahi hai or jahan gunah ka dar ho wan na jao,,, but dear sis aaj kal isko sochta kon hai ? agar ap kisi se kehtey hain k o bhai ye kam ya ye bat ghalat hai is tarah na karo,, tu wo ulta ap ko nahi chhorey ga,, jawab milta hai jao mian apna kam karo,,, ab batain k banda kia karey ??? bas sis ALLAH ham sab ko haya or imaan sachi daulat nawaz dey........
5/28/2009 10:51 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: QUESTION & ANSWER
bilkul sahi farmaya,, yahan par ik bat sunaon ap ko,,
hazart imam ahmad bin hambel ko jab khalifa mutasim billah ne kaha k ap QURAN ko ALLAH ka kalaam na manain QURAN ko ALLAH ki makhlook manain, tu imam sahab ne farmaya k ay khalifa tumhara aqeeda ghalat hai, Q k QURAN ALLAH ka kalaam hai or kalaam mutakalim ki sifat hai, is liye main ye fatwa nahi don ga k QURAN makhlook hai, ,, QURAN tu ALLAH PAK ka kalaam hai,,, is par khalifa ne imam sahab ko 28 months tak korey marta raha,, magar wo ALLAH k wali haq par qaaim rahey,, dua karein k aaj k ulama bhi isi tarah haq par mazboot ho jaain, but aaj k molvi tu ik dosrey ko chain sey jeeney bhi nahi detey,, ALLAH PAK ham sab rehim farmaay..
hazart imam ahmad bin hambel ko jab khalifa mutasim billah ne kaha k ap QURAN ko ALLAH ka kalaam na manain QURAN ko ALLAH ki makhlook manain, tu imam sahab ne farmaya k ay khalifa tumhara aqeeda ghalat hai, Q k QURAN ALLAH ka kalaam hai or kalaam mutakalim ki sifat hai, is liye main ye fatwa nahi don ga k QURAN makhlook hai, ,, QURAN tu ALLAH PAK ka kalaam hai,,, is par khalifa ne imam sahab ko 28 months tak korey marta raha,, magar wo ALLAH k wali haq par qaaim rahey,, dua karein k aaj k ulama bhi isi tarah haq par mazboot ho jaain, but aaj k molvi tu ik dosrey ko chain sey jeeney bhi nahi detey,, ALLAH PAK ham sab rehim farmaay..
5/29/2009 9:05 PMRe: QUESTION & ANSWER
Aaisha
18, Karachi, Pakistan
Najaf You sound very upset that you can't keep your online-chat friend, because of what she explained as religious reasons. I really appreciate your sincere feelings. It is not common nowadays to have faithful people who don't take it easy to loose their old friends.
Still, I don't want your sad mood to make you unjustly blame it on the religion of Islam, from which you have many good friends. First, Islam does not have this obsession with the idea of "sin" whenever any male and female come into contact. The Muslim society is a "regular" society made up of two genders, mixing together, in all fields of life.
We should not be dominated by such a Freudian mentality. It has never been a segregated society, in the sense you are referring to. But, as it must be the situation with your Hindu religion, there are special characteristics in each culture that may not be in common with other cultures or religions. Islam also has its special cultural characteristics, regarding many issues including its value system.
Although this male/female relationship normally exists in the Muslim society, yet it has a different nature than many other societies. It is actually regulated by certain ethics and heavenly directions that should be respected by Muslims and should not be considered as offensive by people in other religions. If you want to know more details about this issue; of the ethics of chatting between men and women, please check my answer of a similar question in this section: Online Chatting
In my answer, you'll realize that Islam is the furthest from being a barrier for people's friendships. On the contrary, it encourages people from different nations, to come for more and more knowledge of one another, as long as there is a mutual respect for the uniqueness of each other’s culture.
Thank you
Still, I don't want your sad mood to make you unjustly blame it on the religion of Islam, from which you have many good friends. First, Islam does not have this obsession with the idea of "sin" whenever any male and female come into contact. The Muslim society is a "regular" society made up of two genders, mixing together, in all fields of life.
We should not be dominated by such a Freudian mentality. It has never been a segregated society, in the sense you are referring to. But, as it must be the situation with your Hindu religion, there are special characteristics in each culture that may not be in common with other cultures or religions. Islam also has its special cultural characteristics, regarding many issues including its value system.
Although this male/female relationship normally exists in the Muslim society, yet it has a different nature than many other societies. It is actually regulated by certain ethics and heavenly directions that should be respected by Muslims and should not be considered as offensive by people in other religions. If you want to know more details about this issue; of the ethics of chatting between men and women, please check my answer of a similar question in this section: Online Chatting
In my answer, you'll realize that Islam is the furthest from being a barrier for people's friendships. On the contrary, it encourages people from different nations, to come for more and more knowledge of one another, as long as there is a mutual respect for the uniqueness of each other’s culture.
Thank you
11/9/2008 8:25 PMRe: QUESTION & ANSWER