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Is dating the right way to ......................

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Is dating the right way to ......................
10/28/2007 5:11 AM
Siddharth, 50Royal Zorpian
Mumbai
India

..........find/meet your prospective 'soul-mate'???
How successful is it?
And, to me (we dont encourage dating in my country; I got married the 'arranged' way!), it looks like an excuse to have' fun', pardon me if I am wrong.
So, tell me, make me more aware of exactly how it works. And, does it deliver the goods (no pun intended!)??

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Re: Is dating the right way to ......................
10/28/2007 5:29 AM
Debbie, 43Royal Zorpian
United States

Well I believe you should have fun in a relationship ,

why be in a relationship if no happiness

also how can one be your soul-mate if arranged ? ...I am curious

arranged can be much easier ,yes ,happier ,i dont know...

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10/28/2007 9:15 AM
Siddharth, 50Royal Zorpian
Mumbai
India

Hell, no, Debbie; I am not saying that 'arranged' is a better way; I am trying to find out whether 'dating' is a good method!
All you seem to do with your first date is..........lose your virginity........lol

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10/29/2007 2:49 AM
Debbie, 43Royal Zorpian
United States

Well if you dont date than how do you know ?

Also who said you lose your virginity 1st date?This is your notion........LOLLLLLL

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10/29/2007 2:57 AM
Siddharth, 50Royal Zorpian
Mumbai
India

Well, I dont KNOW, but I have been told by many people.......well, maybe not the first one, but during the course of dating several people, you end up doing it, bcos u want to find out whether you like this kind of thing with each other..........I am told that this is normal.
In many parts of Asia, virginity is STILL considered a gift to be given to your spouse. Is tht a backward notion??

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10/29/2007 3:01 AM
Debbie, 43Royal Zorpian
United States

I dont think that is just in Asia , but of personal choice


Backward notion, I dont think so

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10/29/2007 3:27 AM
Siddharth, 50Royal Zorpian
Mumbai
India

But the fact is that most boys andd girls in most parts of the world end up having sex during the process of dating.
Nothing wrong with that, per se, but my question is.....is it yielding the right results, i.e. is it really facilitating the choice of one's true soulmate??

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Re: Is dating the right way to ......................
12/1/2007 5:53 PM
Rocky, 62Royal Zorpian
Denver, Colorado
United States

Arranged marrieage, I don't believe in that myself, why should I let someone else pick out who i am to marry, What happens if you don't think the same way, what happens if your not really attracted... dating in the USA, is not the idea of loosing virginity, I have dated several women, since my late wife's demise. I have met some nice women, but we are not on the same page, or ideas... I think parents should still discuss sex and dating with there kids, what happens with an unwanted pregancy, of course that should not happen, got to much birth control available, sorry to say we got to many people in the world now, and they talk about the carbon dioxide, well each one of those new mouths breath in oxygen and breath out carbon dioxide... and there you have more global warming ...

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12/2/2007 12:20 AM
Siddharth, 50Royal Zorpian
Mumbai
India

Sorry, Rocky.....dating is a good concept, but sad to say the practice thats followed in most advances countries TODAY, leaves a lot to be desired! That's the point I was making.....in you case. it was maybe much better, but like many other institutions concerning the act of marriage, this too has fallen by the wayside nowadays!!
I m sure parents are much more aware of their duties today than before, and I don't think they are so forthright with their kids about sex and marriage even now......so we are back to square one....or should I say square zero!!
Well, interesting concept that, about global warming.....should be relevant as a warning to our country, where people talk much and do little else!!!

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12/2/2007 3:49 AM
Rocky, 62Royal Zorpian
Denver, Colorado
United States

hahaha yes all that hot air rises from so much talking LOL

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12/2/2007 10:25 AM
Siddharth, 50Royal Zorpian
Mumbai
India

Well, I'm not the culprit......I prefer to keep my mouth shut.......and let my fingers do the talking!!

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12/2/2007 8:03 PM
Rocky, 62Royal Zorpian
Denver, Colorado
United States

ok ;)

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Re: Is dating the right way to ......................
12/12/2007 8:28 PM
Kevin Scott, 42
Jacksonville, Florida
United States

Each persons culture has a right and wrong way. The western world dates. I like it. It is unfortunate that some peoples values have declined to where now if you go on a date there is an expectation of sexual intercourse family values are poor as well.

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12/15/2007 2:05 PM
Siddharth, 50Royal Zorpian
Mumbai
India

Exactly! I am just saying that overall values have declined, and for many Westerners, dating has become a means to have sex with various partners...........but orignally it was/is a good concept!

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12/17/2007 12:28 PM
Kevin Scott, 42
Jacksonville, Florida
United States

Very true

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