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Love Marriage against Arranged Marriage

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Updated by Mohan at 07/28/2007 13:31

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Love Marriage against Arranged Marriage
6/18/2007 7:08 AM
Mohan, 27
Kolkata
India

This is always a good debatable topic.
Love marriage: An attribute of Love, When two friends or when a girl and boy understand each other and decide to start there journey of life together in a boat we call it Love marriage - if they themselves have decided.

Arranged Marriage: If a girl and boy meet each other to marry in an arranged scenario we call it arrange marriage.

Both got there own diversions..

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Re: Love Marriage against Arranged Marriage
7/18/2007 11:59 AM
♥..pia.., 22
Mumbai
India

well,it depends upon d person's choice......some prefer arrange marriage ,while some of them go 4 love marriage.i personally believe in love marriage,its really imp 4 me to know the person before i marry him

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7/21/2007 12:46 PM
Vaibhav, 21
Mumbai
India

sorry, i don't know
it;s totally depend to person to person, but why such topic is here.
as i know this community is bharatiya and we will discuss some nice things for progress of bhartiya. then y such topic. pls post such message in materimonial or such kind of side.


eti shubham

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Re: Re: Re: Love Marriage against Arranged Marriage
7/21/2007 6:06 PM
♥..pia.., 22
Mumbai
India

i know,this is d grp for d progress of bhartiya...but well...marriage ,specially arrange marriage is also a part of our society.its just that this guy is asking for ur views.....he is not posting any proposal as such.........n thnx,,,,again for commenting n keeping the grp alive ,,,i surly appreciate such true n geneuine comments....n by the why do u dont post any comment,,i m sure it will quiet interesting......

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Love Marriage against Arranged Marriage
7/22/2007 12:20 PM
Vaibhav, 21
Mumbai
India

yes,
merriage is part of our society and in our indain family it make gr8 empact in all ways, socially, financially , etc..

both r good in there own ways. but it not just simple task as it look, it need lots of commitment and responsibility, but now day we all think we have fredoom and can do anything whatever things, and after merrage too we are independent. this think is totaly wrong, finally we all are knot with soem thread with lord. and everyone is independent bu it doesn't mean that u harm other or do whatever u feel best.
and if any one ask personally about me on this, i say no
as i am here for gr8 cause and perpose. and don't want to knot with anything except with god and few relation i have.
if someone got in such knot then there is rare event to come out of it.

even life is wonderful jsut u have to look for wonders everyday and from each situation..

eti shubham

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Love Marriage against Arranged Marriage
7/28/2007 1:31 PM
Mohan, 27
Kolkata
India

Hi dear friends,

My intention was to know your views..as present generation is taking decisions very fast instead of thinking of its consiquences. I do agree with pia view that knowing a person is important before spending married life..but it doesnot come under Love marriage what every body believe.

If most of the people really love each other and marry then there will never be many misunderstands ..as we can see in papers and real life today..Ofcourse am not ruling out that misunderstandings never come ..they do come but can be settled as the couple love each other ( if they really )...

Love marriages are always acceptable to parents if you couple really understand each other... As the couple will be able to convince there parents.. Only in few cases it is not possible..but most of the cases is possible..
My only concern is the present generation is spoiling the word LOVE ...which is feeling of sacrifice and happiness.
A boy and grl are attracted as they are of opposite sex..it doesn't mean they love..Marriage decision should not be taken based on attraction but on Understandin...


Like this if you have your openion..i want to know....

Manmohan Rao

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