would love to know how ya'll feel about it.
I personallty feel its up to the consenting of age individuals. i have been in a relationship with someone 26 years older.it didnt last. and i have been in a relationship with a younger man but it was only a few years younger...i am wondering how ya'll feel about a major age difference.like....40 and a 19 year old? Society calls us women "CRADLE ROBBERS" and the men..who are with the younger women "STUDS"...whats your views? was just thinking about it after i got a few e-mails from some younger men. i am in a nice relationship with a man 16years my senior, but i wnted to know how you all felt..hugs beth

divided on it personally would chose not to have t break him in or baby sit him and put up with them thinking they know it all or would really hate to have one want into my wallet ........love goes where focus goes and I am sure it could be real love but put one $ sign in the mix and .........its warpped...........robin......imagine also the training you could pour into a willing young man and release him on the world hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...........:)

im all for it,any older single women should foget about age its maturity look younger men have the strenght ,energy and stamina,and well older ladies have the skill n are flexible ,lollol so its all gud its just aplay date you should be flattered

Hi to all..specially Beth & Ladycelia,

I am Anil M 39 from India & working in private organisation. Basically I am engineer. I hv gone through the whole conversation of Celia, harish &beth...i appriciate & thankfull that all hv written good experince of life..

I will definetly share my views later. But right now as Mr. Harish says that understanding is much important..i agree with this point but again is it not 100% true...it also depend on culture...in what culture u hv grown up...suppose in your culture it is not acceptable & u see this from born then how u can think for this ...secondly if u reverse the same means Older men with young Girls then its the same or different..i think on this both of u Ladycilia & beth comment...

Ultimately young man wants only sex with older women...that is true...may be in this point i m wrong but it my observation...

OK bye for now...but i hope i will get good response & we will share our views & discuss.

Anil

I admit that most of the men I have dated, married, bedded etc. have been between 1 & 15 years younger than myself...lol....I didn't plan it...it just happened that way...partly cos I look young for my age & I go out dancing a lot...lol....I have been out with a few men between 1 & 23 years older than myself. My husband of 14 years was 3 years younger than me...i do feel that as you get older, the age difference thing matters less. Here's a story for you: My mother lived in Greece for nearly 30 years. She went there when she was 48, a little like 'Shirly Valentine'..looking for a 'sea change' to get her Mojo back after a divorce...she met a man 17 years younger than her. They married, ran a very successful business together on the Island of Hydra. They used to joke that he would be taking care of her in her 'old age'. Sadly, in about 1995, after 16 years of being together, he contracted the 'big C'. First in a lung, then the brain, then the other lung and eventually, after a 4 year battle, he succumbed to an inoperable brain tumor & died. My mother nursed him through it all. they truly loved each other. I don't pretend that there were no problems or issues, but on the whole it was a special and successful partnership.

I don't see anything wrong with it I mean i married a man 12 yrs older than me and truly i have met younger men much younger men that i would consider dating

I think has to do more with the person and their personality and how you relate to each other that is far more important than numbers which is all age is