well elaine, i can certainly agree with you. have had the very young males approach me here and the internationals. There is some american males but they just want to voice their opionins. I think the american male is afraid to stand up and say they like being with the BBW female on the most part because of what their buddies might say...Not all of them but on the most part...sorry guys if i am generalizing...and if they are with a BBW they want to do it in secret...well elaine this is my opionon on this..hugs and hope you have a nice day. Beth

Thanks Beth, I'm glad its not just me. Today I had a mail from some guy who lives less than 30 miles from me!! Can you believe that?? Sort of ironic.....lol. And yes, he was young....lol

Hey Elaine!

I see you've finally posted your topic! I thought you were going to post it in What's Your Pleasure which is why I was looking out for it there, but obviously it wasn't there cos it's here!! Ha ha!

I'm not sure what you can class as a BBW. I see myself as a BBW cos I am bigger than I would like to be! I am NO size zero!! I put on a few pounds during university and am still plump! But I like having some flesh on me and I love eating and enjoying my food!! Hee hee!

When I first joined Zorpia, I was inexperienced at the whole "internet networking" thing and so talked to most people who talked to me. I got a lot of messages from scammers and "one track minded" people and I thought "That's It!!". I have since set my privacy settings so that only my friends can send me messages / post on my homepage! Which has been great because my heart doesn't skip a beat when I open a message I think is gonna be creepy!!

In answer to your question, I don't think international males are more / less interested in BBW than American men. Each to their own at the end of the day! It all depends on the individual guy and their personal preferences.

If you don't mind me asking Elaine, are you on here looking for dating / relationship? If so, please be careful. There are a lot of unscrupulous people out there who will try to take advantage of your good nature. I'm not saying "trust no-one", but just scope people out before being too trusting of them...