Well, i would be a bit sirprised. I don't think that her asking to marry me is wrong, to society that seems to awkward for a girl to ask a guy, it seems more appropriate for a guy to ask, but no, I don't think that would be considered wrong.

hey wel i no it wil defin8ly surprise me 4 sure yh but i dont giva damn. i be vry hapy at de sme time dat she proposed yh cuz in her proposal i wil find luv not her embarrassment or im not stupid finkin about de society yh.im kl n a true luva.cheers.peace.

Girls ALWAYS want to be asked (not that that's a bad thing), we have it harder, WE have to propose to the girl, and we wonder sometimes whether the girl will say 'yes'(which is a good thing for us) or 'no'(which is very bad for us). So WE have it harder.

so therefore girls should ask 2 so there's less pressure

Right.

well who says i want 2 be asked? who says i'm afriad? if da right guy came along and he hadn't asked me i'd asked him myself. if da guy says no i'd talk 2 him about it and it wouldn't be a real issue. actually i have asked b4. not properly. he kept askin me and i didn't think it fair that he got all the fun so i asked him bk. when i was properly ready and if he didn't ask he knew that i would ask him myself. he'd be flattered and most probably would have asked me bk.