so sad but i want to tell you something from what i learn from life dont believe any thing here on chat also if that a love realation ...you must see him face to face and not involved with him more than that before you see who that man look into the eyes to know inside him

So , u telling me to go to him and met him,afer that I should judge if he 4 me or not?

yes dear do that for your true feelings and after that you've your mind &thought to judge and dont be sad if him not deserve you you'll find one day the one who's deserve you

He always telling me Im always in his mind and he love me alot, cant live wizout me and he wait the day to met me at last. He prepare me all things 4 my coming,flat,car,even he will clean and cook 4 me, but I need him so much and maybe I so nerveouse that is near the day to see him.

If you feel strongly about him then go for it like the last messagenger said... go see him for the person he is first you can never tell through a chat and if you dont go do this you may regret it down the road the best thing to do is to go see him for the person he really is then make the judgement if you like him or not, if you dont do this you may never know

Thnx alor Andrea, I will do that 4 sure,anyway my papers,tickets are all done I just must prepare soon 4 packing and take my vacation this friday. Pls wish me luck and pray 4 me. I hope it will be everything fine,cos I dont care abt his look but i love his mind and soul,that made me stole my heart and im so so love him

good luck hun, i wish you all the best, please keep me up to date of how it goes there, add me as one of your friends im always here to talk if you need some help, you see like a really nice person, and i really hope everything works out for you, god bless your soul

thnx my dear 4 all ur advices, and sure we will keep in touch cos ur really nice girl also.It was nice to met u also :) keep in touch and wish u also more LOVE and happines. :-* Gad bless u 2 :)

I have a feeling it'll all work out fine, provided you go there and meet him!!
Good luck, and God Bless!!

Omgad, how u get in here ??? :D
Thnx 4 ur encoureging words, this make me feel more safe and give me hope also. god bless u my friend :) I wish u all best and happines also .
Welcome in the GIRLS CLUB ;)

omg. its a girlie site i got into!!
sorry, my mistake.......never do that again!
Anyway, you've got a man's feel and perspective on your issue!

Thnx and that 4 the only 1st male's "feeling & perspective" on our site this really nice from u.

It was a gr8 surprise LoooooooooooooooooooooooL.

Thanks for the 'baby' kiss!

be stronger khanda and prepare yourself to be in good mode
with him

I will Dame I must be and god help me give me strenghts 4 that, pray 4 me .Helps me alot.

god with you my sweetie sister hope you passing the bad time soon &to be strong enough

Inshallah . I hope it also,and i feel so lucky to have such sweet and kind friend as u beside me :)

hey hun,
listen this is what i would do, long distance relationships are hard to work well with but many people do it, you just have to have alot of talking involved with it. Have you tried talking to him about what he is doing, and if he still wants you to come to see him, try having a talk with him first give him your phone number and talk with your voice, messaging isnt always the best becuase you never know the true feelings of the other person on the other connection, my advice is to try to talk to him first before you decide to go out to see him

Dear Andrea,I know him so well, trust me, in the beggining we chat more then 10 hours or more, when he know im back from home, he sent me sms"bring my as to pc nooooow', and we get talk till late almost till morning,sometimes i got sleep in my workplace :D bcs of sleeples nights,then, he changed rules,he sent me always after midnight to sleep,put me to swear that i will sleep cos "he wana me rest and go fresh to work" but I know that he dont wana me talk to any1.And he do that everytime wiz me.
He did called me also,cos he miss me so much and he want always listen my voice,last august he had his burthday in 18 and he wanted me there to celebrate it, but something interfered and i told him, he get mad,and delay my coming to 19 sept,next week..slowly he get nervouse,we start litle to fight, put rules dont chat with guys on zorpia,if they will comment me he kick their asss, but then i told him to do the same, why he put me those rules.He very jelouse guy.But Im just needing him Andrea and this making me so mad cos wehn i come lately online he sleep almost all the day long and he come late, we talk few hours the he go out at nights wiz his friends.I miss him so much, I know is near to met him,but what if im wrong?

i think you both really care about eachother the way you are talking about what he does for you, and what you feel for him, i think you should go see him, if you dont you may regret it down the road trust me you'll always be asking yourself why didnt i go meet him, what would have happened if i did and so on, so if you go all your questions will be answered

I hope Andrea u will have right, and i have faith on that,thank ur encoureging words,this support is helping me alot to bear this situation,maybe im so nerveouse cos is not so far from now. I hope everything will be fine I really wish to met him,feel him,hear him,I wana him soooo much.

i love helping people, especially if it involves love, im going through a very hard time right now with family and friends, it helps to talk about it but i dont want to bore all of you to death:P

Aw hony, this topic is opene 4 that also, why are we all here then? U dont bodder us wiz anything, if u have also things or any problems to discuss we may talk, its opened to any, mostly all girls:D, just with some new .. visitors inside :D (apreciating any1's advice,doesnt matter their gender) we must be united :)

hey sweety 1st ov all i wanna tell u tht ur not alone n ur never gna b... although u love him sooo much n im sure ov tht ..tht doest mean tht u dnt have a frndz beside u :D:D

so sweety i knw its sad n u need him always beside u.. n ur work n his frnds standin between u guys..
then y dont u talk with him.. tell him wut do u feel ..
im sure he'll understand then u both will come up with an idea together .:) u shud open ur heart to him n tell him hw u feel ..other wiz he wudnt knw !!!!

take a day off ... make him a romanic dinner .
give him a gr8 day to remember..
get back the sparkel ov ur love..
i mean change the routien!!!!!!!!!!!! let him remember hw u used to have fun together so he will give U his time not hiz FRNDZ .
...
tc care hun n rem. we'r always here 4 u any time :D:D

Aw, thnx my dear, ur so sweet and ur also right, ur advice really means alot to me,thank u again. I will do that ;)

eeh sweety ur welcome.... any time
so lsn when u go threr update us with ur latest news ?? k??

wish u all the best ,, n gd luck

Aww thnx sweety :) I will do that . promise ... Kisses

Awwwwwwww Mona :( U make me so calm wiz ur words, i cry from ur words that giving me dont lose my hope or feel get lost,Plsssssssss Mona, if i come, promise me u will be beside me, cos i will need u there. I told him I wana met u Mona, even the world ends come i dont care but i will met u also. Thank u my dear cos u near me . Allah hafiz my dear :)

noo baby u dunt have 2 feel lost coz nothing happned or 'll happen that make u feel lost:)
i knw that u have a big mind and good way of thinking so u'll pass anything u'll do without problems..
and without telling me i'll be near u:P
i wanna meet u also really it'll be our pleasure 2 come 2 our country:)
Allah hafiz..

Ur words melts my heart,Sure we will met inshallah :)

Ya sis, ur reply it was damn tuff 1,cos ur made from 1 strong peace and ur roots are damn nobile and powerfull,u can manage ur feelings,but I'm damn sensitive and this hurt me alot when i got such damn problems like that,But if u would know him as i do,we evry day are online almost all days,we had alot in common,luff,cry,even if we had party at home we celebrate it 2gether like that.He had alot of things what other scare it,he was a bad person,problems in hi health,seriouse 1 and he get recovered by my help,his parents know me also,i talk to them even to all his member of family>mom.dad.and bro's also.They all wan met me and his parents didnt liked any girl from those parts,bur they are egyptions also and they met them real,but after they saw us always online in chat ,each of them camed to chat wiz me cos they love me alot and i get into their heart so fast,even they know me on cam.Is so strange i know sister, is even 4 me also,but if i have the change to prove u all this things you would maybe change ur mind,and if u see now he did closed his account in Zorpia to dont chat wiz any only bcs of me,his coming here is damn dificult cos of that damn visa is expensive like almost 1300 euros just the invitation to take his visa.He wana come, but only 1 chance is to get him by myself from there more easy.
He wana even move here wiz me,leave his family if i wana,all things are okay now,just matter of time now how we gona met and when!!!
I know sis ur wana my best,But i think abt that thing too,day and nights, and my heart telling me try to met him at least cos u wont lose anything.If i dont try i wouldnt know that,u also know that humans learn from their mistakes too,if i make it and will end bad it will be my fault and i will learn it ,but i cant demand or control my heart,believe me sister,u should do the same i think, dont u think so? With u never was happened that?

Yes i hurt u...coz i know very good that Net is just wind ok !!!...and u are a woman...never a woman go to join a man & certainly not a man from who u know nothing...but i let a door open...maybe its the new meet for relationship...MAYBE..hum !!! hum! hum !..he is Egyptian, u think really that he respect u if u come !!! oh OH...wake up !!!..u say e had a Gf...and u go !!!...he must come !!! not u...are u sure he isnt a pervert ? a killer ? does he respect u ? if u smoke front of his parents ? if u have a skirt ? AH ? u want put the Shaddor !!! embraced his religion !!! to be nothing in his country coz u are a woman !!! AH !!!...eat just hallal...live just with words of prophet !! AHHH ! let him decide if u make shopping or not, alone or not...Yes if u want lose ur freedom yes GO !!! GO Khanda !!! run run i hope u all hapiness...but i cant have a friend who isnt judicious... BYE BYE

ok...i no he's moral and everything...but just cause he's not cheating doesn't mean he isn't thinking bout it...so b careful...and remember...ur friends and club members care...we'll do anything we can 2 help u...but like meet him...and hopefully it will go/went well.